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How Can Social Media Negatively Impact My Divorce?

Once your divorce proceedings are in full swing, you should be prepared for the other party (through their attorney) to explore all legal ways to scrutinize your activities and behavior and find any possible evidence to support their case.

Considering the high popularity and usage of social media, chances are that they will go through your publicly available messages on various social networks, such as Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

Social Media Comments that could Weaken Your Case

If you were contemplating divorce for a while, and shared status updates or messages on social media against your spouse that could be perceived as angry, abusive, or even threatening, the other party may be able to use them against you at some point during the divorce proceedings.

For instance, even if a friend suggested to you to hide marital assets or indulge in marital waste (frittering away of marital assets), your encouraging responses to such ideas could show you in a bad light in court and in the eyes of the opposing defense counsel.

Even if you had no intention to commit these wrongful acts, a visit to the casino or another expensive entertainment venue around the same time could be misconstrued when seen together with such conversations. This could undermine any argument you have that you are financially responsible.

Social media networks such as Facebook have a ‘checking in’ feature, which could disclose your visits to hotels or other travel and entertainment locations. So, even if you remain discreet on social media and avoid making direct comments, any social information about your activities or whereabouts could be twisted out of context and used against you.

Social Images and Videos could Hurt Your Claims

Your images and videos shared on social media showing you smiling, laughing, sun bathing on the beach, partying, or celebrating with friends could pour cold water on your claims in court or during a deposition that you suffered domestic abuse or violence (or were miserable) during the same period when these images or videos were posted online.

Remember the saying “a picture paints a thousand words”? Well, video says even more than that! If you are fighting a child custody battle in a divorce and the other party introduces photos or videos from your social media account that shows you drinking, acting wildly, and so on (which could mean your influence on the child is not exactly wholesome), it could hurt your claims.

If you did not attend a school function for your child, missed several of their sporting events (soccer or Little League for instance), or failed to visit her or him when they were hospitalized, and your social media account/s undermine your word that you had something vital to attend to – the chances of you winning custody could be in jeopardy. Parents that put their kids first will avoid these types of situations, so they do not hurt their case.

Discussing Your Divorce Proceedings on Social Media can Only Compromise Your Case

Your family and friends may be interested in knowing updates about your divorce proceedings. Once you indulge in sharing information publicly about your ongoing case, you may end up making remarks or observations that might not be appreciated in the court.

If the other side is watching, they take any opportunity to embarrass you in the court or harm your case, depending on how self-damaging your commentary may have been. Any discussions related to your ongoing divorce case should be done strictly offline.

Avoid making any case-related discussions even through private online messages or social chats. If you must give a status update on social media about your case, let your lawyer do it for you.

Things to Remember about Social Media

  • If you are using Facebook, your ex-spouse may have friended some of your common Facebook friends. So, he or she could have access to your posts, even if you have changed the privacy settings to block outsiders from viewing them.
  • If you are on Twitter, you should be aware that all your tweets are accessible to anyone, even if they do not have a Twitter account. You need to change your privacy settings and check “Protect my Tweets” in order to ensure privacy.
  • Even if you want to delete some old social media content during the proceedings, never do it without consulting your divorce attorney. Any suspicious behavior could be viewed negatively by the opposition and your spouse.
  • If you have downloaded social apps on your cell phone, simply deactivate the geo-location feature from them so that you are not leaving a trail of your movements on social media.
  • Avoid accepting new or unknown friends or joining or following new groups or social media pages while your divorce proceedings are ongoing.

Consult with an Experienced Alabama Divorce Attorney Today

Alsobrook Law Group has a dedicated and tenacious team that will work hard to ensure you achieve the best possible outcomes in a divorce. Call 334.737.3718 or contact us online for a free consultation.

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Can Divorce Impact My Credit Score?

There are many consequences–both good and bad–of filing for a divorce and permanently and legally separating from one’s spouse. While these consequences can extend to the personal and the private, certainly affecting relationships and feelings, many of the consequences of divorce are financial. Indeed, when one is separating from their spouse, they will need to consider the economic repercussions of doing so, and may have to ask–and answer–tough questions about supporting oneself, tax consequences of divorce, and more.

One question that our clients often ask is whether or not getting a divorce will impact their credit score. While the act of filing for divorce alone will not have an impact on one’s credit score, other elements of divorce could affect one’s credit health. Here’s what you need to know about the impact of divorce on your credit score, and steps that you can take to keep your credit in good standing.

How a Divorce Can Impact Your Credit Score

Again, simply filing for a divorce will not have an effect on your credit score; however, there are multiple ways that divorce could take an indirect toll on your credit standing and your overall financial health. Consider these ways that a divorce could impact your credit score:

  • You start to fall behind on payments. For whatever reason, it’s possible that a person may start to fall behind on their credit card and other payments as a result of a divorce, and as such, their credit score is negatively impacted. You may fall behind on payments because you’re distracted by the divorce and simply have too much on your plate to effectively manage, or you may miss payments because, as a result of the divorce, you no longer have the economic means to make payments on time and/or in full.
  • Your (ex-) spouse starts to miss payments. Another situation that could affect your credit score is in the event that your ex-spouse starts to miss payments. Keep in mind that, just because your spouse has been ordered to pay down debt as part of a divorce judgment, this does not necessarily mean that they will. If both you and your ex-spouse’s names are connected to a debt and you are counting on your ex paying that debt, you are taking a risk.
  • Your ex has access to your credit cards. It’s best to have your spouse’s name removed from your credit card and bank accounts the minute that you decide that you want to file for divorce. While it’s unlikely, if you have an especially vindictive spouse who has access to your credit cards, they may rack up credit card debt intentionally, which could ultimately harm your credit score.
  • You have to refinance your home. Depending upon how property is divided in your divorce, you may end up with ownership of your home. However, in order to afford your home, refinancing may be a necessity. Refinancing your home will result in a credit inquiry, and, could have an effect on your credit score if paying your mortgage solo means taking on more debt than you can really afford.
  • Your credit limit is decreased. When a couple separates and there are no longer two sources of income contributing to costs of living, a credit card company or bank may decide to decrease a single person’s credit limit as such. This could impact your credit utilization percentage, which is one of the factors in your overall credit score.

How to Maintain Good Credit During a Divorce

If you’re going through a divorce, you have a lot of different things to worry about and maintaining good credit health should be one of them. Bad credit can impair your ability to do everything from rent an apartment to take out a loan and much more. Some tips for maintaining good credit during a divorce include:

  • Remove your spouse’s name from your credit card and bank accounts as soon as you know that divorce is imminent;
  • Make paying your credit cards on time and in full a top priority;
  • Create a budget that takes into account how much you can afford and how debts can be mitigated; and
  • Work with a skilled divorce lawyer who can help you to obtain a favorable asset and debt division judgment.

Call the Alsobrook Law Group Today

To learn more about debt and divorce and how our lawyers at the Alsobrook Law Group can provide you with quality legal representation, please call our lawyers directly today at 334-737-3718 or send us a message telling us more about your situation. We offer consultations over the phone and in person at our Opelika office. 

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Holidays and Visitation

The holiday season is upon us, and this is the time of year when families gather to spend quality time with each other. For divorced or separated couples with kids, the holidays can be especially hard on the children. They are used to spending time with Mom and Dad together, and now they have to go back and forth between the two depending on what the child custody and visitation schedule says.

In Alabama, most child custody arrangements call for the non-custodial parent to be allowed liberal visitation rights. The state recognizes the role of both parents in the lives of their children, so they are inclined to grant frequent visitation in the vast majority of cases. In some rare and extreme cases in which there is a history of abuse, the court may only grant limited supervised visitation.

Holidays and Visitation in Alabama

Visitation for holidays is an area that couples should try to work out on their own. Each family has their own traditions and their own ways of celebrating the holidays,and the holiday visitation schedule should reflect the uniqueness of each individual circumstance.

There are several ways parents may handle visitation during the holidays. Here are some common approaches:

Alternating Holiday Schedules Annually

One popular way parents may choose to divide holiday time with the kids is to rotate holidays in alternate years. One parent could have the children for a certain holiday in even-number years, while the other parent has them in odd-numbered years. In addition, you can rotate major holidays so that each parent has some holiday time each year with the children. For example, during even-numbered years, Parent A could have the children for Thanksgiving weekend while Parent B has them from Christmas Eve through Christmas morning. Other holidays throughout the year could be scheduled in the same manner, and the parents would swap holidays in odd-numbered years.

Assigning Fixed Holidays for Each Parent

Another way to fairly divide the visitation schedule around the holidays is to have the children spend the same holidays with each parent every year. So, in this example, Parent A would have the children for Thanksgiving weekend every year,Parent B would always have the kids for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, and other holidays would be divided up accordingly between the parents. This arrangement might work well if the parents want a more simplified schedule and/or the parents have different holidays that they believe are most important.  

Splitting Holiday Time in Half

You may choose to split the holiday time between the parents, so the children spend part of the day (or series of days) with each. For example, one parent could have the children for the night before Thanksgiving and most of Thanksgiving Day, while the other parent takes the kids on Thanksgiving evening and keeps them the rest of the weekend. A similar arrangement could be done with Christmas Eve/Christmas Day and New Year’s Eve/New Year’s Day. The time-splitting approach works best when the parents live close to each other and can coordinate the schedule so there is not too much traveling involved.

Alabama Standard Visitation Schedules

If parents are unable to come to an agreement on their own regarding visitation,the courts usually have a standard visitation schedule that is followed. The standard schedule varies depending on the county you are in, and judges have discretion to account for various factors; such as the age of the children, the distance between the two parents, whether or not one parent lives out-of-state,and many others. A strict standard visitation schedule is usually only imposed if there is no agreement at all between the parties. More commonly, this schedule is used as a starting point for negotiations, and it is customized as needed based on what is important to the parents and children.

Contact an Experienced Alabama Family Law Attorney

Holidays and visitation schedules can be a source of dispute during a divorce or parentage case. When working out a schedule that fits your needs and the needs of your children, it is best to have a skilled advocate in your corner arguing forcefully for your rights and interests. At Alsobrook Jackson, Attorneys at Law, we extensive family law experience, and we work closely with clients to ensure that they receive the strong personalized representation they need and deserve. For a consultation with one of our attorneys, call us today at 334-737-3718. You may also send us a message through our web contact form or stop by our office in Opelika.

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How Long Does a Divorce Take in Alabama?

You may be hoping for the fastest end possible to your marriage, but many states take a cautionary approach to the notion of a “quick divorce.” It would be a shame to decide based on emotion, only to change your mind after the all the ink has dried and legal matters have been settled.

Alabama is one of the states that would prefer you take your divorce matter more slowly, and they enforce this with a mandatory waiting period. How long a divorce takes in Alabama, however, depends on several factors, chief among them whether you and your spouse can agree on major issues.

Alabama’s Cooling Off Period

Alabama law requires that couples have a cooling off period, also called a waiting period, that lasts for 30 days and begins on the day you file for divorce. Under the most ideal and quickest scenario, you will never have a divorce in Alabama that is concluded in under 30 days. The state has this rule to make sure that you aren’t going to change your mind after you file the legal paperwork to end your marriage.

A Spouse’s Time Limit to Respond

Another time limit to consider is the other spouse’s period to reply to a complaint for divorce. This period is also 30 days, which can overlap with the state’s mandatory cooling off period.

When just one spouse files a complaint for divorce, they are required to “serve” the paperwork on the other spouse. If the divorce is amicable, the other spouse can just sign for the paperwork at the courthouse, which will speed up the process.

Otherwise, there is a slight variation to this time. This process can be a challenge if they have trouble finding the other spouse or if the spouse avoids the service.

Once the other spouse has been successfully served, it is only then that the 30-day clock will begin to run for a response. For example, if it takes two weeks to serve your spouse with the paperwork, you are already six weeks into the divorce before you can ask a judge to sign the final order.

Uncontested Divorces in Alabama

Your divorce could be over with much quicker if it is classified as an uncontested divorce. If you and your spouse can agree on the major issues related to asset and debt distribution, custody, child support, and alimony, you can include all those terms in the settlement agreement that you will submit to the family law court.

Your settlement agreement can be submitted while you wait for that 30-day cooling off period to conclude. Once over, the judge will review your paperwork and give it their seal of approval if they consider it to be reasonable. Considering the waiting period and a few other logistics, you could reasonably complete this process within about six to eight weeks.

What is a Contested Divorce?

Contested divorces in Alabama take much longer. If you and your spouse cannot agree on a long list, or even a few, major issues, you will need to go to court and ask them to help with those decisions. As soon as the other spouse files a response to the complaint for divorce, the court will set a trial date. This is often several months out.

According to Alabama law, both parties are also required to participate in mediation or a pre-trial conference before taking a case to trial. Many cases have to be postponed due to the availability of parties or failure to meet other requirements of the court.

After the trial, you will need to wait even longer for the judge to make their final ruling and issue an order. In Alabama, a contested divorce can take anywhere from several months to several years, depending on the issues being litigated.

Speak with a Trusted Alabama Family Law Attorney

Whether your divorce is uncontested or contested, it is vital that you safeguard the rights and financial future of yourself and any dependents. The Alabama family law attorneys at Alsobrook & Jackson, Attorneys at Law can explain your options and provide representation in a divorce, custody, support, or other family law matter.

Contact our Opelika, Alabama office now at 334-737-3718 or online to schedule a free review of your case.